Well I am a pretty 36 year old female looking for my Mr Right or Soul Mate. However this has to be sometime in the future because I am recovering my health. I am quite a homebody so I don’t do alot socially. And I don’t want to meet him over the computer. I am intelligent and caring and kind. He would have to have similar traits. I also wouldn’t mind if he was nice looking too. I would like somebody who will treat me well and is a good communicator. One of my main interests is health and being positive and building a happy healthy life. So where and how do I find him please.

We normally wouldn’t contradict anything in a request, but the odds of a “homebody” meeting Mr. Right are much slimmer than the gal who gets out and about. So, with that in mind…

If you continue living your health-focused life, going about doing the healthy things you’re doing, meeting someone who shares your qualities will more naturally fall into your path than seeing that someone in activities you wouldn’t normally do. Being “out and about” can include these things which put you in an atmosphere of wellness with an opportunity to meet new people:

  • Frequent visits to the health and positive self-esteem sections of bookstores.
  • Volunteering somewhere you find meaning and where you could expect to meet a Mr. Right (but keep in mind that our soul mates can often appear where we least expect them).

BUT if you want to keep things at home (or not as much out on the town) how about starting a club that would be meaningful to you (e.g. a book club which meets each week at a coffee shop, library, or your home and focuses on books having to do with health and well-being — or focuses on reading funny books with the intent of using laughter to help enhance health and well-being). Be sure to advertise the club in places where men tend to gather!!

Get a health treatment (e.g. massage, acupuncture, etc.) each week by a different female practitioner. Take advantage of the opportunity to share that you’re on a journey of heath and know you’ll encounter Mr. Right along the path sometime down the road. Spreading the word through them increases the number of routes Mr. Right will have to find you.

Have a Find-Me-Mr.-Right party. Invite a group of friends to come over for a fun game night / movie night / whatever night and pick two guests who must bring with them someone they think could be good for you, or someone who knows someone who could be your soul mate. The day after the party, have all of your friends rate the two guys who were brought for inspection. It’ll be fun for all!

And here’s a key trick to remember. DON’T BE AFRAID TO TALK TO POTENTIAL MR. RIGHTS! Approach any such men as if they weren’t a potential at all. Even if the guy turns out not to be Mr. Right, one of his buddies might be!